His future plans
On your man’s bucket list the music festival “x” is on top, otherwise his future plans are rather vague and change from day to day. This may have worked great for you as a couple and you love his spontaneity and adventurousness.
However, it is not the ideal condition for a baby, who will demand clear structures and a lot of reliability from you.
The comparison among your acquaintances
Many of your friends and acquaintances have already had offspring or are planning to in the near future. However, your husband changes the subject when it comes to the children of others.
Even at barbecues, he can’t do very much with the babies that everyone else admires and fusses over. The topic “child” or “desire for children” obviously does not play a role in his world yet.
Of course, the desire to have a child is different for everyone and very individual. However, if your desire for a child becomes stronger, you should talk to your partner about whether he wants to go in this direction with you, whether he still needs time, or whether a child is out of the question for him. This will give you clarity. After all, in a well-functioning partnership you should be able to talk about everything.