2. Diminished or Forced Physical Intimacy

A healthy relationship often features a level of physical intimacy that feels natural and desired by both parties. However, when this intimacy starts to diminish or feels forced, it can be a sign that the relationship is being artificially prolonged. Here are two aspects to consider:

2.1. Lack of Spontaneity in Physical Affection

Physical affection, such as touching, hugging, and kissing, should ideally be spontaneous expressions of love and attraction. When these gestures no longer arise naturally or if they begin to feel routine and devoid of genuine warmth, it’s a concerning sign. This lack of spontaneity can indicate a deeper emotional disconnect or a loss of physical attraction. If you notice that your interactions lack the affectionate spontaneity they once had, it might suggest that the relationship is no longer thriving in its natural state.

2.2. The Role of Obligation Over Desire

Physical intimacy is a significant part of most romantic relationships, serving as a bond that connects partners on a deeply personal level. However, when this intimacy is motivated more by a sense of obligation than by genuine desire, it can feel unsatisfying and even resentful for one or both partners. This shift from desire to duty can strip away the joy and connection that physical intimacy is supposed to foster, leaving a hollow space where warmth and affection once resided.