1. Choose to love their partner

If you thought that loving your partner would come easily and naturally to you all the time, you should think again.

Happily ever after is a myth for people who aren’t willing to put in the work.

Contrary to popular belief, love isn’t a never-ending exhilarating feeling of excitement and butterflies.

It’s a decision you make to stay committed and excited about one person in a special way every day for the rest of your life, especially if it’s a marriage.

There may be days when they do not feel in love with their partner, but happily married couples choose to love their partner every day.

They make the decision and act on it by expressing love and affection for their partner regardless of their feelings.

It could be through nice gestures, romantic touch, and words, kind and affectionate words, or support.

Happily married couples understand that they both may have their way of feeling loved and appreciated, and they try to speak each other’s language daily.

If people depended on their feelings, they would express love once in a while, whenever they feel like it.