The job comes first
Your husband is obsessed with his career and spends most of his time at the office. Whether he’s sick, you’re celebrating your anniversary, or the big Christmas dinner with grandma and grandpa is coming up: He’s always and everywhere available for his colleagues and the boss – vacation or a break are foreign words to him.

When it comes to family planning, you also have to reckon with the fact that he won’t make any compromises in terms of his job and that you will be alone at home with your baby. It is now up to you to clarify whether you want this.

His lifestyle reveals if he is ready for a child
The contents of the fridge, if he had his way, would consist of beer, old food from the delivery service, milk mice and an open jar of pickles. On weekends, he likes to go out and party all night – he has to see his buddies at least three times a week.

If his lifestyle so far is anything to go by, he’ll have a hard time taking responsibility for the upbringing and health of a child.