When the other feels stressed ask what happened, listen and sympathise instead of judging.

That’s care. And we need it every day of our lives. Please, offer the same or even more in return.

Life Goals and Plans

You need to share the same life goals and plans. Even if you’re so different and especially if you want to marry him/her.

What do I mean? Yes, you are different and should be like that. Yes, you have different dreams and goals you want to achieve, and it should be like that.

But they still have to match each other.

For instance – if your dream is to travel around the world till your middle 30s and live life day by day, and your partner’s vision is to get to the highest possible position in the company they work for… you know one of those is not going to happen.